Friday, February 11, 2011

There Is Always Hope

Last night, two Indians, two Palestinians, a Lebnani, and a Syrian broke (naan) bread at a hole-in-the-wall Pakistani restaurant in an unassuming suburb of LA. The main topic of discussion: the revolution in Egypt.

Nishant and I listened quietly as our friends recounted memories of events that had transpired in their homelands. Experiences were shared, opinions were voiced, and perspectives were gained. Some were optimistic while others were doubtful about the future of Egypt, but everyone agreed that history was indeed being made.

Having grown up in a country with basic freedoms, it's easy to take those freedoms for granted and, consequently, that much more difficult to imagine the plight of millions of people around the world who live their lives in glaring contrast to our own. Over the past 18 days, the Egyptian people decided that a life wrought with despair instead of hope, fear in lieu of security, and desperation in place of dignity was not a life worth passing on to future generations. They resolved to take back the power - and they succeeded. 64 years ago, the people of India gained their independence. 235 years ago, the US achieved the same triumph. The fight for freedom rages on in many countries, but the issue has become one of basic human rights, regardless of faith, nationality, or race. Resilience in the face of oppression is something that unites us all.    

Last night, six friends left dinner daring to hope for a new beginning halfway across the world. On Friday, February 11, 2011, the dream came true.



"You gained your liberty; you have gained the right to catch up with the rest of the world. Make the best of it." 
- Mohamed ElBaradei, Egyptian Diplomat, Law Scholar, and Nobel Laureate - 02.02.11

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks


I just finished one of the most thought-provoking pieces of non-fiction that I've ever read. The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks tells the story of an African-American woman who, dying of cervical cancer at the untimely age of 31 in 1951, unknowingly had a biopsy taken from the tumor growing inside of her.

The cells from this tumor would eventually become the immortal HeLa cell line, used by doctors and scientists worldwide for biomedical research. The HeLa cells made it possible for researchers to delve into a wide range of scientific pursuits, including - but definitely not limited to - research into AIDS, cancer, gene mapping, the effects of radiation, and ultimately the creation of the polio vaccine. Today, more than 11,000 medical patents exist as a result of HeLa research.

Despite the numerous medical achievements made possible by the HeLa cell line, Henrietta Lacks' family has never received any monetary compensation from those individuals, hospitals, and corporations who utilized her cells. Instead, the Lacks family has lived in poverty for generations. As the book progresses, we get a detailed glimpse into the histories of both the HeLa cell line and the Lacks family. The book takes a bold look at ethical issues of race and class with regard to medical research and how policies have (and in some cases, have not) changed over time. The author of the book, Rebecca Skloot, does an amazing job recounting the facts, explaining scientific processes in layman's terms, and - most importantly - humanizing Henrietta Lacks by showing the reader who she was as a person and not just the unwitting object she became after her death.

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Busy Busy Busy - !

The past couple weeks (and weekends) have been such a whirlwind! Work has gotten crazier for both Nishant and me, and the weekends have been filled with birthdays, weddings, going away parties, and family time.



People told us that life would only get busier after we got married. I didn't believe them at the time. Now I do.

What have we been up to?

Friday, 1/21: Anooj's 30th Birthday - Long Beach

Saturday, 1/22: Billy & Evelyn's Wedding - Anaheim

Sunday, 1/23: Nay's Going Away Party - Cerritos / Dinner at Fogo De Chao - LA

Friday, 1/28 - Sunday, 1/30: Manav's 3rd Birthday - Oakland

Sunday, 2/6: Super Bowl Party - LA

What's coming up?

Tuesday, 2/8: Dinner & Talk @UCLA ("An Evening with Author Ned Vizzini") - LA

Wednesday, 2/9: UCLA Anderson Happy Hour / Dinner @ Mama & Papa's

Thursday, 2/10: Dinner @ Al-Noor with Aghi & Sana - LA

Friday, 2/11: UCLA Anderson Microbrew Club Event - LA

Saturday, 2/12: Birthday Party @ Castle Park - Sherman Oaks / Mama & Papa's 40th Anniversary Dinner @ Benihana - LA

Saturday, 2/19 - Monday, 2/21: Long Weekend Getaway with the Joshi Family - San Luis Obispo

Friday, 4/1 - Sunday, 4/3: My 25th Birthday Weekend!!

Friday, 4/8 - Saturday, 4/9: Shaily & Vishal's Sangeet, Wedding/Reception - San Diego

Monday, 5/30: Ashika & Jeevan's Wedding/Reception - Diamond Bar

Saturday, 6/4: Thushanga & Shani's Reception - ???

Sunday, 7/3: Neha & Hirsch's Wedding/Reception - Anaheim

Saturday, 7/23: Aghi & Sana's Reception - Buena Park

Sunday, January 16, 2011

The Holidays

This is long overdue, but I wanted to post some pictures of our time in Seattle for the holidays.  Enjoy!

THE KIDS OPENING THEIR CHRISTMAS PRESENTS

MANAV & HIS NEW TRAIN SET

SANTA NISHANT MAMA HANDING OUT PRESENTS

DAD WITH BABY ROHIN

MOM WITH BABY ROHIN

THE BOYS WITH THEIR NEW SWEATERS FROM NANIMA

NISH AND I WITH BABY ROHIN

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

The Small Things...

I can honestly say that this is the happiest I've been in a long time.  Actually, it's probably the happiest I've ever been, and every day I'm realizing the importance of counting my blessings and being thankful for what I have instead of being frustrated by inconsequential things.  The other day, Nish and I watched the Oprah episode in which she interviewed Dr. William Petit - a man whose wife and daughters were tragically murdered in their home three years ago.  Nish and I were both overcome with emotion as we watched this man talk about losing his family.  He was totally alone.  Totally broken.  When asked what reminded him the most of his family on a daily basis, he answered that he was reminded of his family whenever he saw a father teaching his daughter how to ride a bike, a family out to dinner, a father and daughter playing basketball.... in essence, "the small things."  Nish and I were struck by these words.  Everyone says "it's the small things in life" that are truly important, but despite this, they are often taken for granted.  I hope that we all continue to cherish the happy moments that life brings us: the laughter, the tears, the achievements, the warmth, the light, the love, ... the small things.  

"If there's anything to be gained from the senseless deaths of my beautiful family, it's for us to all go forward," he said. "Help a neighbor, fight for a cause, love your family."   
- Dr. William Petit

Monday, December 6, 2010

A Few of My Favorite Things...

I love the holidays.  Here are some reasons why:

SCENTED HOLIDAY CANDLES


STARBUCKS PEPPERMINT MOCHAS

CHRISTMAS MUSIC

And last, but not least....


COOKIES :)


Sunday, December 5, 2010

Turkey Day 2010

Thanksgiving this year pretty much consisted of eating, drinking, dancing...and a lot more eating.  Satish and Bahar graciously hosted us for four nights, and we had a great time.  What were we thankful for this year?  That we were able to spend Thanksgiving with the Joshis before their big move to Nepal next year.  It was perfect.  Here are some pictures of the weekend:

NISH MAKING US YUMMY MARTINIS!

PRITI'S AWESOME PEANUT BUTTER-HERSHEY KISS COOKIES

FIRST THANKSGIVING AS HUSBAND AND WIFE

MANAV BRINGING US 'GROCERIES' FROM "TADA JOE'S"

CARVING THE TURKEY & POURING THE WINE

OUR AWESOME THANKSGIVING SPREAD

NISH COULDN'T GET ENOUGH